If in the relationship, both come from a sense of giving then there will be no problem. But if both want to take, there will be fights for sure. 'I am here to contribute, what I can do for you?' - your relationship will last longer with this attitude. Similarly, don't be feverish about a relationship, just relax and you will find your relationship with people will improve and become better. If you are like a leech, clinging on to somebody and bugging them, even though you say all nice words, that person will run away from you because they can't handle it.

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar