Your relationship should go beyond words, and beyond the feeling level, i.e., emotions, because words also change and emotions also change. Then it becomes a real good and committed relationship. Whatever may be the relationship, a friendship or a marriage, it becomes very solid when you see beyond emotions.
When you accept every flavour of emotion and every strain of thoughts or words, then you move into a platform which is not shaky and which doesn't break.

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar